Oh god. I just had to call 911 to find and pick up my son. ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
I told them he needs psych ward and detox bad. ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
So a basically told the cops he's on shit in violation of his bond. He's 4 days no sleep and sleep deprived psychosis and he drove off because I wouldn't give him money to get "gobs of xanax"..
He said he was suicidal and he cut again. His leg. Not sure I told he has a history of self harm when younger
I just talk to cops. They are going where they think he is now
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@ucantstop_me Iโm so sorry Sandra, I hope they find him safe. ๐ซ๐๐
oh my gosh, Sandra ๐ we're here, we'll wait with you, @ucantstop_me
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Oh Sandra... I'm so so sorry you're going thru this.
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I hope everything turns out okay and they find him. ๐ฆ
Sending all the hugs you need. I hope they find him safe.
@ucantstop_me ๐๐ป I hope they find him safe. The worry must be awful for you.
@ucantstop_me Sandra, I am so very sorry. I know you did the right thing calling the cops. ๐
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Iโm very sorry. I hope they find him quickly and he gets the help he needs.
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I hope they pick him up safely, and that he gets the help he needs.
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I will carry you and him in my thoughts.
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Hoping for best possible outcome. ๐ค๐
@ucantstop_me thinking of you sweet friend. This is never easy to go through. Here if you need someone to listen. Hugs.
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@ucantstop_me (((hugs))))
I canโt imagine what youโre going through. Hugs my friend
@ucantstop_me oh myโฆIโm so sorry. Hope heโs found soon.
@ucantstop_me ๐๐๐ฅฒ Sandra, Iโm so sorry
@ucantstop_me oh dear! I know this is stressful and we are right here with you. He needs help and you did what needed to be done to help him get it when he canโt help himself. ๐
Sometimes, in addiction & mental health...you have to do the hard things for the ones you love. They break our hearts but the truest form of love is to do the things that give them a chance to live long enough to seek and accept the help they need.
Ask me how I know.
I was once in the same boat as your son. People stood their ground and got me to see that I needed help. They saved my life.
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This is from 36 years later in my recovery. I will never forget their love to stand up to my disease, even before I could.
Do what you must to save his life, in case he finally might realize he needs to commit to saving it too
Hard choices in love are hard indeed. But they often pay off as the best of bets we can make
Please go to Alanon where you will learn no one is equipped but the addict. They will support you ๐ฏ
@ucantstop_me I've just seen this update on your Son, glad the professionals are doing something.
I hope next week and the court case against the Narc goes favorably too
UPDATE ^^
thank you for all your kind words of support.
My so ln is still in ER, will be evaluated by psych and social work.
I'm hoping psych admits him. He has some undiagnosed physical and emotional issues.
They can't force rehab. Its voluntary unless court orders.. but they don't do that until sentencing.
We are not equipped to help control this addiction.