I will say this for the other little eggs out there. If someone comes out to you and tells you that they're not the gender that they present to as, don't be afraid of them. They feel safe with you to open up and hatch, support them. They trust you to talk about it. They trust you to listen and accept them. It's not the porn, it's not a social contagion, It's a self-realization. And all we seek is safety and assurance that we're making the right decision for ourselves. #transgender
@kel The fact that we keep trying to be considerate of one another is something that I really respect about this place. The community here has made drastic differences in each other's lives and it's a value I really appreciate.
This is the latest transgender legislative assessment for the country. Imagine if you're in our shoes, and where we have to go to live in safety and with equal protections. This is why we fight in the court systems and in the legislative system. #lgbtqia #transgender https://www.erininthemorning.com/p/anti-trans-legislative-risk-assessment-43a
In all the research that's been done, You have the proof. Transgender care and surgeries do in fact improve the lives of many, there is less than 1% margin that are dissatisfied with their treatments, even less that detransition. Is there even a single study that proves this large of a margin of people being happy with who they are after their treatments? It's unprecedented but many of us that come out and ask for help to transition are doing it because we finally feel safe to talk about it. 4/4
In the Cas report, pour some drastic assumptions given guesses that were not even supported in research about what gives the idea to transmen and women that they are trans. I'm living proof that it's not porn. I'm living proof that it's not perversion. I loathed who I, the body that I live in, and I still struggle with dysphoria a day-to-day basis. Don't believe everything you see in those reports, look the research. /3 https://www.erininthemorning.com/p/opinion-no-dr-cass-porn-will-not
I am a trans man that is gender fluid in identity. Sometimes I feel feminine. Sometimes I feel masculine but at the core of it all I am a man in the wrong body. It's taking my mother-in-law about 3 years to really embrace that and I'm proud of the progress she's made to accept me. There are people here that don't want me to live as I am. My sister-in-law's boyfriend, for instance, has made it very clear that he's a bigot and very ill-informed. /2
Erin in the morning wrote an article that feel I need to speak on. Pornography is not why I came out of the closet as trans. After 30 some odd years I finally live in a safe place where I can look back on why I was pushed back into the closet and dismantle the trauma from it. My husband and my son and my in-laws have proven to be the most supportive and accepting people I have ever encountered in my entire life. I came out 4 years ago to my husband first and then to my son. /1
@HealingHobbit *hugs* I'm in good hands, It's taking a long time to heal the wounds that came from it, but I'm proud of the progress I've made.
Alright, gang. Big #love to you all.
I've got to pretend to be normal for a while, which is going to take all my mental bandwidth, so I'll catch you all later.
Be good. *And* weird.
@FrankCannon And made an exit even Elvis wouldn't have been impressed by.
@AskTheDevil It appears so. XD
Just cuz you were hot shit and got away with crap on Twitter doesn't mean you're going to get away with it here or be hot shit. #My2cents
@HealingHobbit I've been keeping a close eye on this case myself because I was a victim of CSA. If I can help stop a circle of abuse and harm to other youths I'm going to do what I can to make sure I can stop it.
@MrGoat
#100percentFundedInMay would be amazing!
@HealingHobbit there are other victims that are coming forward about what she has done to them in the last couple years and many of them have been harassed out of Troth because of how tightly connected the board and Paxson is. Many of them view her as a dear friend or mentor and have handwaved and victim blamed the survivors that stepped forward.
@stueytheround @HealingHobbit Not a bad idea. If you see a card layout that you're curious to know more meaning behind, take a screenshot and send it my way. I'll be happy to give my breakdown of it.
@HealingHobbit And the document of evidence. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Pi4_NSXu-O5OvBnP_SHVq7Ki3Cofub5iOHnmw3R7hrQ/mobilebasic /noscrub
@HealingHobbit I have a series of links that I'm going to provide that actually help flush out what's exactly going on that they're not saying in there articles and newsletters. 1. https://www.reddit.com/r/NorsePaganism/comments/1co2qbj/another_abuse_allegation_re_paxson/
2. https://www.reddit.com/r/heathenry/comments/1cof6vd/troth_abusemisconduct_lokis_wyrdlings_official/
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