Well, CoSo friends; house went on the market today.
Moving 2nd time in 6 mos - wife chose #affair, so I chose #divorce.
Backstory - Lived in previous house for 26 years
In relationship with wife for 20; married for 9
Moved into new house for 2 weeks when I discovered affair. Astounded that she chose to leave. ๐ <sigh>
...And today...hearing scheduled in two weeks. I still can't believe this is my life. #KeepMoving <sigh>
Next up: Income Tax; that will be the final interaction. (I know I "could" file solo -- will compare.)
@Julie_in_FL Iโm so sorry. I know how painful that is.
TY @FruitKace; I had reached the "anger" phase until this week. Packing and loading moving truck; leaving FL after 26 yrs.
Still - onward. It will get better. ๐
@Julie_in_FL โค๏ธ Itโs the first day of the rest of your life.
@Julie_in_FL So sorry you're going through this.
@Julie_in_FL i'm so sorry ๐ ๐ฅ
@Julie_in_FL so sorry to hear this. You know you'll be better in days to come and much better in the long term. Stay strong.
TY @MayLadyAGH, much appreciated ๐๐ป
@Julie_in_FL Aw crap. I'm sorry.
TY @LarsTheWanderer ๐
@Julie_in_FL I'm so sorry. Head up and hang in there.
TY @sloopyy ; gonna be ok... ๐ appreciate your kindness
@Julie_in_FL
Sorry to hear that. *hugs*
TY, @TomeReader ; appreciate your kindness ๐
@Julie_in_FL so very sorry. That is horrible!
TY, @Sdmikef - it IS sort of unbelievable and shocking. Trying to hang in there, tho. One day at a time. ๐
@Julie_in_FL Thatโs a great deal to go through all at the same time. Take care of yourself. โค๏ธ
TY, @Vogelsanglover ; it has been overwhelming at times.
I'm grateful to have family support, though out of state.
It's hard right now because everything is really happening - divorce papers filed; movers coming, etc. Bittersweet to leave my home & the dreams (w/wife) associated with it.
Will get better, tho; one day at a time. ๐
Grateful for your kindness. ๐๐ป Thank you.
@Julie_in_FL sorry to hear. Look forward, a start of another journey.
@Julie_in_FL I'm sorry, it hurts now I'm sure. But here is to a brighter future. ๐ค
@Julie_in_FL So very, very sorry youโre going through this. Weโre here any time you need an ear.
@Julie_in_FL so sorry Julie. Give yourself lots of Grace on the hard days. ๐ธ
@SueGanzSchmitt ๐๐ป.
Thank you for your kindness. ๐
@Julie_in_FL Hang in there. It's cliche but true: Closing one door opens another :)
@Julie_in_FL ๐ค
@Julie_in_FL you've got this! great to hear on the house. 1 step at a time.
@singlemaltgirl Thanks so much; I'm lucky to have so much support. ๐ ๐๐ป
@Julie_in_FL I'm so sorry. Wishing good things for your future.
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@tifroggie Appreciate you ๐ Thanks ~
@Julie_in_FL so sorry to hear all this! In the beginning stages myself so I feel your pain. Hopefully you'll be able to move on and find someone deserving of you!
@MarvelousMadi13 TY, MM; I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. It's a gut-punch; and such a betrayal. ๐
Sending so much strength and support.๐ ๐๐ป #CoSoCares #CoSoFam
@Julie_in_FL wishing you all the best. Stay strong. Looks like you have a lot of good people that care for you. Hugs
ch@Julie_in_FL Iโm sorry youโre going through thisโฆ itโs always hard when a relationship youโre invested in goes southโฆ Iโve been there too; married for 12 years, no house or a lot of property, but a beautiful, then 4 year old daughter (now a few decades older ๐ค). Fast forwardโฆ married to a wonderful woman for 35 years with a 30 year old son and friends with my exโฆ
I wish you all the best in your new life๐น
@Julie_in_FL ๐ฅฐ Gโniteโฆ ๐๐ค
endings are always painful, whether wanted or not.
Let yourself grieve, so you may have room to embrace the future
@CdnChrisCo TY, yes; that's a good way of looking at it ๐ ๐๐ป
@Julie_in_FL Reading the thread it seems you've had a tough, heartbreaking time and suffered a good deal of injustice. I hope everything eventually works out OK for you. โค๏ธ
@peter_by_the_sea Thanks, Peter; appreciate your support. Nothing to do but keep going. Grateful for this #CoSoFam ๐๐ป ๐
@Julie_in_FL Iโm so sorry for the heartbreak, upheaval and life disruption. I hope the hearing brings some closure at least as you #keepmoving forward โก๏ธ
@Astro_yyz ๐๐ป TY; it's been a "special" year, that's for sure. Hoping for better things ahead. I appreciate you and this #CoSoFam. #KeepMoving, indeed ๐
@Julie_in_FL sorry so sorry
@MSRegiGirl Thanks so much. It'll get better - I won't ever have to live through That Day again. ๐
@Julie_in_FL fucking hell that is hideous. So sorry you're going through that
@rpardee Thanks so much; it's been the stuff of nightmares. No choice but to keep going. Grateful for you ๐๐ป
Closed on sale of house today. That chapter closed. Now divorce hearing will be scheduled in FL; should be final same day as hearing. #KeepMoving <sigh>