Follow

Well, CoSo friends; house went on the market today.

Moving 2nd time in 6 mos - wife chose , so I chose .

Backstory - Lived in previous house for 26 years

In relationship with wife for 20; married for 9

Moved into new house for 2 weeks when I discovered affair. Astounded that she chose to leave. ๐Ÿ’” <sigh>

ยท 23ยท 2ยท 22

Closed on sale of house today. That chapter closed. Now divorce hearing will be scheduled in FL; should be final same day as hearing. <sigh>

...And today...hearing scheduled in two weeks. I still can't believe this is my life. <sigh>

Next up: Income Tax; that will be the final interaction. (I know I "could" file solo -- will compare.)

TY @FruitKace; I had reached the "anger" phase until this week. Packing and loading moving truck; leaving FL after 26 yrs.

Still - onward. It will get better. ๐Ÿ’œ

@Julie_in_FL so sorry to hear this. You know you'll be better in days to come and much better in the long term. Stay strong.

TY, @Sdmikef - it IS sort of unbelievable and shocking. Trying to hang in there, tho. One day at a time. ๐Ÿ’œ

@Julie_in_FL Thatโ€™s a great deal to go through all at the same time. Take care of yourself. โค๏ธ

TY, @Vogelsanglover ; it has been overwhelming at times.

I'm grateful to have family support, though out of state.

It's hard right now because everything is really happening - divorce papers filed; movers coming, etc. Bittersweet to leave my home & the dreams (w/wife) associated with it.

Will get better, tho; one day at a time. ๐Ÿ’œ

Grateful for your kindness. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป Thank you.

@Julie_in_FL sorry to hear. Look forward, a start of another journey.

@Julie_in_FL I'm sorry, it hurts now I'm sure. But here is to a brighter future. ๐Ÿค—

@Julie_in_FL So very, very sorry youโ€™re going through this. Weโ€™re here any time you need an ear.

@Julie_in_FL so sorry Julie. Give yourself lots of Grace on the hard days. ๐ŸŒธ

@Julie_in_FL Hang in there! It will get better, somewhere down the road. Not today or tomorrow, but somewhere in the distant future, you'll realize it's better. But dang, that's gotta hurt big time with the affair. I understand the pain you're going through. Been there.

@Julie_in_FL you've got this! great to hear on the house. 1 step at a time.

@singlemaltgirl Thanks so much; I'm lucky to have so much support. ๐Ÿ’œ ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

@Julie_in_FL I'm so sorry. Wishing good things for your future.
โค

@Julie_in_FL so sorry to hear all this! In the beginning stages myself so I feel your pain. Hopefully you'll be able to move on and find someone deserving of you!

@MarvelousMadi13 TY, MM; I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. It's a gut-punch; and such a betrayal. ๐Ÿ’”

Sending so much strength and support.๐Ÿ’œ ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

@Julie_in_FL wishing you all the best. Stay strong. Looks like you have a lot of good people that care for you. Hugs

@Lee_Kuni Thanks, Leanne; I am very lucky that I have a very supportive family and of course this . Appreciate you ๐Ÿ’œ

ch@Julie_in_FL Iโ€™m sorry youโ€™re going through thisโ€ฆ itโ€™s always hard when a relationship youโ€™re invested in goes southโ€ฆ Iโ€™ve been there too; married for 12 years, no house or a lot of property, but a beautiful, then 4 year old daughter (now a few decades older ๐Ÿค—). Fast forwardโ€ฆ married to a wonderful woman for 35 years with a 30 year old son and friends with my exโ€ฆ
I wish you all the best in your new life๐ŸŒน

@j0n TY, J0n; it is awful to go through. I am so sorry that it happened to you. Glad you're in a happier place now. ๐Ÿ’œ Appreciate ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

@Julie_in_FL

endings are always painful, whether wanted or not.

Let yourself grieve, so you may have room to embrace the future

@CdnChrisCo TY, yes; that's a good way of looking at it ๐Ÿ’œ ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

@Julie_in_FL Reading the thread it seems you've had a tough, heartbreaking time and suffered a good deal of injustice. I hope everything eventually works out OK for you. โค๏ธ

@peter_by_the_sea Thanks, Peter; appreciate your support. Nothing to do but keep going. Grateful for this ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป ๐Ÿ’œ

@Julie_in_FL Iโ€™m so sorry for the heartbreak, upheaval and life disruption. I hope the hearing brings some closure at least as you forward โžก๏ธ

@Astro_yyz ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป TY; it's been a "special" year, that's for sure. Hoping for better things ahead. I appreciate you and this . , indeed ๐Ÿ’œ

@MSRegiGirl Thanks so much. It'll get better - I won't ever have to live through That Day again. ๐Ÿ’œ

@Julie_in_FL fucking hell that is hideous. So sorry you're going through that

@rpardee Thanks so much; it's been the stuff of nightmares. No choice but to keep going. Grateful for you ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

Sign in to participate in the conversation

CounterSocial is the first Social Network Platform to take a zero-tolerance stance to hostile nations, bot accounts and trolls who are weaponizing OUR social media platforms and freedoms to engage in influence operations against us. And we're here to counter it.