Well, CoSo friends; house went on the market today.
Moving 2nd time in 6 mos - wife chose #affair, so I chose #divorce.
Backstory - Lived in previous house for 26 years
In relationship with wife for 20; married for 9
Moved into new house for 2 weeks when I discovered affair. Astounded that she chose to leave. ๐ <sigh>
Closed on sale of house today. That chapter closed. Now divorce hearing will be scheduled in FL; should be final same day as hearing. #KeepMoving <sigh>
@Julie_in_FL Hang in there. It's cliche but true: Closing one door opens another :)
@Julie_in_FL Hang in there! It will get better, somewhere down the road. Not today or tomorrow, but somewhere in the distant future, you'll realize it's better. But dang, that's gotta hurt big time with the affair. I understand the pain you're going through. Been there.
@NaomiSkarzinski Thanks so much, Naomi. ๐ #CoSoFam helps
@Julie_in_FL you've got this! great to hear on the house. 1 step at a time.
@singlemaltgirl Thanks so much; I'm lucky to have so much support. ๐ ๐๐ป
@Julie_in_FL I'm so sorry. Wishing good things for your future.
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@tifroggie Appreciate you ๐ Thanks ~
@Julie_in_FL so sorry to hear all this! In the beginning stages myself so I feel your pain. Hopefully you'll be able to move on and find someone deserving of you!
@MarvelousMadi13 TY, MM; I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. It's a gut-punch; and such a betrayal. ๐
Sending so much strength and support.๐ ๐๐ป #CoSoCares #CoSoFam
@Julie_in_FL wishing you all the best. Stay strong. Looks like you have a lot of good people that care for you. Hugs
ch@Julie_in_FL Iโm sorry youโre going through thisโฆ itโs always hard when a relationship youโre invested in goes southโฆ Iโve been there too; married for 12 years, no house or a lot of property, but a beautiful, then 4 year old daughter (now a few decades older ๐ค). Fast forwardโฆ married to a wonderful woman for 35 years with a 30 year old son and friends with my exโฆ
I wish you all the best in your new life๐น
@Julie_in_FL ๐ฅฐ Gโniteโฆ ๐๐ค
endings are always painful, whether wanted or not.
Let yourself grieve, so you may have room to embrace the future
@CdnChrisCo TY, yes; that's a good way of looking at it ๐ ๐๐ป
@Julie_in_FL Reading the thread it seems you've had a tough, heartbreaking time and suffered a good deal of injustice. I hope everything eventually works out OK for you. โค๏ธ
@peter_by_the_sea Thanks, Peter; appreciate your support. Nothing to do but keep going. Grateful for this #CoSoFam ๐๐ป ๐
@Julie_in_FL Iโm so sorry for the heartbreak, upheaval and life disruption. I hope the hearing brings some closure at least as you #keepmoving forward โก๏ธ
@Astro_yyz ๐๐ป TY; it's been a "special" year, that's for sure. Hoping for better things ahead. I appreciate you and this #CoSoFam. #KeepMoving, indeed ๐
...And today...hearing scheduled in two weeks. I still can't believe this is my life. #KeepMoving <sigh>
Next up: Income Tax; that will be the final interaction. (I know I "could" file solo -- will compare.)