This cracks me up.

@DavidSalo
Also, signatures not matching.

Mine changed since I originally registered to vote. I had a mail in ballot challenged by Norwalk with my signature.

I’m still trying to wrap my head around the fact that the bank gave us money to buy a house.

#whatweretheythinking

@stueytheround
It was. But during the two matches that we watched on two different days. They never said what sport it was. Every other sport mentions the sport 27,000 times during the match.

@singlemaltgirl
I don’t think they do. They called it handball

Oh. They finally said. And it was the potato in the studio.

Men’s Handball.

We never had nets in handball. It was either a backboard or four square.

Sitting watching The Olympics. Trying to figure out what we are watching. Every other game, it was women’s <insert obvious sport>, men’s <insert obvious sport> by the potatoes talking.

This one, we’ve watched it twice, not once have the potatoes mentioned what it is.

We decided that it’s glorified dodgeball.

@JeSsA
Yes. Yes they are. They supposedly have them in a larger size at Costco, I have yet to find them.

Who knew that moving 1100 miles away was going to be so expensive?

#adultingishard

@NoahPaulLeGies
EVERY DAMNED TIME

We bought a house.

#adultingishard

It is coming up on the one year anniversary of the onset of my mother's death.

I have already had a lot of the firsts. But these are the ones that are going to get me.

Aug. 1, when I took a leave to take care of her because we got the diagnosis.

Everything else, is just BULLSHIT.

#cancersucks #adultingsucks

I don't want to grow up. 🤣 and I'm out of rum.

@NMWoman
We have been discussing these things for some time now. Even before all of this.

Now it's just how much house can we afford on his salary, until I get a job. Where can we get the most bang for our buck.

I started the list last night.

I am not fond of change. So this is going to be twice as hard on me.

@kel
We both love Oregon. Been to Corvallis, OR. Loved it. Small town feel for a college town.

I've been to Seattle. and I got a biased view of it, I brought LA weather with me when I was there.

I love Colorado Springs. Except the dry air. I have a humidifier.

Looking at cost of living, job market for the husband, all of that. It is a bit daunting.

Adventure is putting it mildly.

Whoa.

Things are getting real.

Husband has been approved to work fully remote.

Qualified for a home loan.

Looking for places in Oregon, Washington, Colorado.

I'm gonna admit. I'm fucking terrified about all of this. I know it needs to happen. I cannot afford to live in SoCal, unless I want to go back to the soul sucking job I had. I don't.

Adulting Sucks.

@Liliki
My sisters do not even know how much they have traumatized me. Even now. My dogs are scared at my screaming. My husband is at work and even he doesn’t know.

@Liliki
Hardest part is the people are family. I’ve always known they resented me, I was always ganged up on when I was younger, picked on, teased for being a “baby” because they would make me cry. But after today, I have irrefutable evidence that they have tolerated me for the last 22 years. I was already going to cut ties and go low contact after my mom’s estate is settled, but now I’m going no contact. They won’t miss me. They never have two shots about me before. I shouldn’t be surprised.

Todays mood

I will also be able to shower whenever I feel the urge. I will not have to concern myself with people coming in and out of my house at all hours of the house. I will be able to do laundry whenever I want. I won’t have to listen to his tv every night. I can have the toilet reset and not have to worry about it being knocked loose when he is dropped onto it.

I know it sounds petty, a lot of these things, but if you haven’t lived it, you wouldn’t know.