So ya'll know we got some guests staying here cos we're trying to help them get on their feet. What blows me is that they trash our house and the mom bitches at her kids constantly who are 2 and 3 and 11 and I'm almost done with her mouth /attitude. I've expressed my concern to my SO and told her that I'm to the point where I'm gonna slip and it's just gonna come out and ain't nobody gonna like what I got to say. Trying to avoid that but when every other word spoken to the kids is fuck ..
Not to mention I haven't got to painting the bathroom or trimming it out yet because they trash it daily ....... it's not even done and they can't keep their shit clean. Sorry to rant in ya'll ear.
@MrGoat Like my dad always said " company is like fish, after a few days they start to stink". Your home, your rules, it already sounds like they lack gratitude, that's only going to slip further without a line in the sand, good luck.
@MidnightRider @MrGoat
Don't know these people but they sound less than ideal. Kids can try anyone's patience but c'mon. Verbal abuse is not going to help.
That would make me just about lose it, too.
@janallmac @MidnightRider Yep I and SO have been biting our tongues so hard.
@MrGoat @janallmac Use goat family diplomacy, tell them to go to hell but make them enjoy the trip.
@MrGoat is she family to your SO?
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@MrGoat
Bongs and boundaries
(Spell check just taught me that the difference between "bongs" and "bonus" is just one letter)
@MrGoat I hope that your confrontation helps her find out that she's been doing wrong. Or at least, lets the kids know that _someone_ can validate that Mommy's the one at fault, not them.
@MrGoat I would have a hard time with that. Especially when it comes to kids. I probably would have already said something.
@Amaranth Yea I'm about to wake my SO and have her deal cos I'm not gonna be nice and I know it. My concern is the kids because if I tell her about herself she's gonna run out the door.
oh, that's not good.
having guests is difficult enough without their being slobs, noisy nasty slobs.
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i couldn't deal with it, that's for sure. they'd be asked to shape up or depart.
@MrGoat that sucks and is incredibly frustrating. If other people aren’t going to parent their kid(s), especially if they’re in my home, I feel like I’m obligated to speak up and do it for them. It was always done to me as a kid by relatives, teachers or church members.
@annamuneca Yea I'm not wanting to parent her kids and I don't really have time to as I need to work so she needs really figure it out.
@MrGoat time for her to shape up or GTFO
@annamuneca I kinda want to show her the comments...... And wow they are screaming at the kids while others are asleep still. JFC. Ill brb.
I'm not a complete asshole, I'm really not, but I'll be damned If I pay the bills here and just because she bought food she's gonna run her mouth to her kids here etc. Fucking around and Finding Out soon I thinks.