So ya'll know we got some guests staying here cos we're trying to help them get on their feet. What blows me is that they trash our house and the mom bitches at her kids constantly who are 2 and 3 and 11 and I'm almost done with her mouth /attitude. I've expressed my concern to my SO and told her that I'm to the point where I'm gonna slip and it's just gonna come out and ain't nobody gonna like what I got to say. Trying to avoid that but when every other word spoken to the kids is fuck ..
I'm not a complete asshole, I'm really not, but I'll be damned If I pay the bills here and just because she bought food she's gonna run her mouth to her kids here etc. Fucking around and Finding Out soon I thinks.
@MrGoat Like my dad always said " company is like fish, after a few days they start to stink". Your home, your rules, it already sounds like they lack gratitude, that's only going to slip further without a line in the sand, good luck.
@MidnightRider @MrGoat
Don't know these people but they sound less than ideal. Kids can try anyone's patience but c'mon. Verbal abuse is not going to help.
That would make me just about lose it, too.
@janallmac @MidnightRider Yep I and SO have been biting our tongues so hard.
@MrGoat @janallmac Use goat family diplomacy, tell them to go to hell but make them enjoy the trip.
@MrGoat is she family to your SO?
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@MrGoat
Bongs and boundaries
(Spell check just taught me that the difference between "bongs" and "bonus" is just one letter)
@MrGoat I hope that your confrontation helps her find out that she's been doing wrong. Or at least, lets the kids know that _someone_ can validate that Mommy's the one at fault, not them.
Not to mention I haven't got to painting the bathroom or trimming it out yet because they trash it daily ....... it's not even done and they can't keep their shit clean. Sorry to rant in ya'll ear.