This man really can't get it into his head that I can be this physically weak and still live without a car. He's freaking out, offering to buy me a new car, pay for ubers, etc. I keep reminding him of how I've lived most of my life without cars, and the extra walking strengthens me, like physical therapy. He really sees himself as needing to take care of me, and just can't get it into his head that I'm tough as nails and can do quite a bit when I put my mind to it.

@fernfren 4/ It's such a relief. I've been worried that she wouldn't dig deeply enough, that the light for the moss and violets would stress her out. So, a hide that you can half bury in the substrate, like this pot on the side. 👍
#pets #frog

@fernfren 3/ Anyway, this is the first cave that she feels secure enough in that she has fully submerged herself in the soil, probably munching on the occasional bug that comes through the hole at the back of the pot, or wanders in through the substrate on the bottom. She is finally comfortable enough to be showing signs of brumation, once she dug in she has not emerged.

@fernfren This gives the pill bugs a place to dry out (no moisture below the roof), enter the substrate through crevices. The retaining wall keeps her from getting to them if they are in the soil on that side. She can't get them if they wander above or on the other side, small stones discourage her from digging there. She can hop up the bridge to dig, but she is a lazy thing and will need to be quite hungry to do so. 2/?

@fernfren Okay, if you get one of these, I have to say the flower pot was far superior to anything I tried with landscaping, store bought hides, old coffee tins, etc. On one side, I have a flat (haunted) landscaping stone propped over leaves, dry plant trimmings, a few bug pellets, a bit of crushed eggshell and the like for the pill bugs. Moss grows over the stone roof. The entrance to this nest is plugged up with a smaller stone, I can dump pillbugs inside and plug it up. 1/?

The algorithms are getting good, Indeed is now sending me results for funeral home positions.

Morty, five minutes after being put back in a clean cage with a brand new cave to replace the one she kept tearing up: "I am in a strange, new place. There may be danger. Those worms are probably poison."

psst, @fernfren, I know you don't want to miss the Morty pics :).