And my depression is back 🤮
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1st it was my E &T levels, which hopefully my doctor can help with
Then the fact that my kids are struggling with me being trans. They like the "pink" lipstick because it doesn't look like I have anything on, according to my ex, which gets interpreted as they don't like it when I dress as myself
Then my ex crying about how much I've changed & how much I hurt her 😔
Then the massive weight gain cuz of the depression 😑 Such a crappy circle
Sorry for the vent 😔
I'm so sorry your ex is making you responsible for the emotions she needs to process. She's an adult. You being yourself isn't something it's OK to blame you for.
The kids are another matter--but since your ex is not really processing your transition, don't take her word on how the kids feel. Maybe they just like the pink lipstick!
@tyghebright I'm hoping with time things get easier. Way back when I first introduced the kids to the real me, my oldest liked the pink because it wasn't as scary as the dark red. It's so tough to know how my kids actually feel