My dad is gone. He passed around 9:30 and we found out about an hour later. The hospice nurses were so good to him these last days. It hurts so much. I can't believe he's gone. Technically, thanks to Alzheimer's, he sort of already was.. but now my dad is really gone. And I'm not ok. And I'm scared.
@sarcasmsign Don't be scared, it's a natural cycle of life, and you will be okay. Give yourself space to feel all your grief, and no judgment. Trust that he will always be with you, because he will. Trust that you loved him, and that love will never go away. It just won't. Be kind to yourself during this time, especially. All you are feeling, is absolutely okay.
@sarcasmsign itโs a tough thing to go through and thereโs nothing anyone can really say to ease the pain in this moment, but just know that time will help you heal.
I'm so sorry. Am in a similar situation. Mom died on the 16th. Only found out that she was terminal a few hours before she died, and living 1000 miles away, I couldn't be there. But she wasn't "Mom" for nearly 1 1/2 years, due to dementia. For now, I feel numb.
Also lost my uncle in November. No more of the previous generation survives. Feeling very much alone in the world with no family left. Hugs to you and yours.
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May his memory be a blessing.
@sarcasmsign Sincerest condolences for your loss. Just know that you are not alone, and if you ever need someone to commiserate with - or just vent to - don't hesitate to reach out.
@sarcasmsign My condolences to you and the family. Give Nimoy lots of hugs.
@sarcasmsign Hugs to you. I've been there.