When asked “what’s your favorite thing about them” to a couple that’s been together 30+ years why is the guy’s response almost always “she puts up with me”?
@annamuneca , I think some people aren't good at talking about tender feelings. It seems like a self deprecating attempt at redirection.
@annamuneca , yeah. I give specific compliments fairly often, not just to the spouse. IDK. W just isn't wired that way.