Fastest way to get a narcissist to out themselves?
The reason why I asked is because I need to make new friends where I have moved to and I have discovered through lots of therapy that I tend to let narcissists into my life so I would like to be able to figure out if they are that way really quickly. I guess what I am looking for is like a hypothetical question you could ask them that's veiled as a getting to know you thing but they would answer in such a way that you would know. Like a VOIGHT KAMPFF test for narcissists.
Narcissists have a difficulty understanding empathy. Or that's how I understand it. So a sort of VOIGHT KAMPFF test should work I think. Hypothetically. I'm not an expert.
@scottyorange HAHA...if only it were that easy. Here's a simple test...Ask them something about themself and if they go on for 20 minutes without asking anything about you, that's a clue. Healthy relationships involve BALANCE, mutual interest and reciprocity.