Lost a longtime friend tonight of decades because she felt it necessary after I expressed fear for my trans child here in NC to tell me her MAGA cousin sent her supplies, but she's not THAT KIND of MAGA, and I called out the white cis het privilege wrapped up in that declaration while I try to figure out where my kids won't be persecuted as heinously.
And here's where I differ-
I'm fine with that.
My ability to put people into the Not Trustworthy Box and remove myself, regardless of how long we've been in any kind of relationship, terrifies people.
I no longer trust this person.
They're into the box.
Period.
@Shelter Ugh, I'm so sorry. I hope that you can get your family out of there. I have a couple friends in the SC and NC areas that are working towards fleeing the state to safer states like Delaware and Illinois.
Sending 16 to UNC Wilmington for college, hopefully, so he's within easy driving distance and then after college I told him to head to NJ right outside of Philadelphia, where I grew up, because NJ is a Sanctuary State.
@Shelter Michigan is "trying" to push for Sanctuary status, but there's a lot of repugs that are pushing against anything in regards to safeguarding the population here.
@Shelter It's safe here, but we aren't sure for how long if Gretchen loses office.
@PaganMother
She's an incredible badass and people need to support keeping her right there where she's absolutely crucial for now.