I am terrified of the dentist. I think I've lost part of a filling, between two molars. It happened awhile ago, and was never a problem. Until now. There's some soreness when I chew. I know I should make an appointment. I know I'll feel better once it's fixed. But I just can't do it. I'm hoping the pain goes away...Logically I know it won't. Medical trauma is really fucking tough, man.
I share your phobia but get it fixed. If it decays and eventually requires a root canal procedure, you'll regret it.