AMA about trans life from an out of the closet transmasc person! Fire away! Gonna keep this going until the 19th. #AMA #TransAwarenessWeek
@PaganMother
My 16 year old (she/they) born female has been feeling out their gender identity. As a cis mom in my early 50s, I may not understand everything, but I support that she understands how she feels. When she asked for a binder, I bought them two. When she asked for a tux instead of gown, no hesitation. She seems to be more gender fluid than trans, but not sure. Unfortunately, they got my busty genes, so sometimes she likes them, other times they annoy her (continued)
@Aja Ahhh, I am a bit on the busty side myself at the moment. I'm pre surgery trans, so I still kind of live as femme for the most part until that has been dealt with. I would recommend if their binding, to make sure they're correctly measured, and has a binder that's the correct size. This guide can help with choosing the right one. Binding isn't the only option for reducing the top side size however, there is also body tape, but this can be harder for larger femme tops. https://www.masstpc.org/what-we-do/gear/
@Aja Have you asked them about what pronouns they prefer, or if they have any consideration for hormone blockers, or surgery in the future to conform to their gender preference in identity?
@PaganMother yes she prefers She/They at the moment. She busted ass to get into a public School of the Arts high school here, so a lot of the uds in her friend groups are LGBTQ+. Like I said, I'm not a young mom, so I mess up sometimes, but I do try really hard to use everyone's preferred pronouns. They're all just phenomenal kids