@FireMonkey like many in the West, we in Hawaii were horrified, wrongly, it turned out. Whew! I remembered when a co-worker of my dtr's closest friends at Best Buy, Seattle said he and his 2yo son had an incestuous relationship because they slept in the same bed. That friend whipped out a knife in a blink of an eye and the commenter was terrified, were it not for my dtr who instantly took care.Told her friend that the haole (white) and did not know that Asians allow children to do that.