@TRantosaurus I'm so sorry you are going through this. I'm a strong supporter of hospice care but I have no idea what's available to you in your area. It is so important to offer dignity and comfort. We were able to do this for my mother from her own home. My SIL was at the forefront of palliative care back in the 80s when hospices were first available, so it was easy for us. Stay strong and get the support you need.
@Klaatu_Veratta_Nectarine Thank you.