My wife just told me that someone at work—younger than her, of course—asked her, "Why do you work?", referencing that, well, she's no longer a spring chicken. That hurt her feelings.
My mood now:
I was this person up until my early 20s. I grew up with parents who thought this was acceptable behaviour and had it not been for my ex-hubs, I may never have learned how hurtful such behaviour is. I still have feelings of guilt for how I treated people.
@Shelter "I'm just being honest."
No, you're being an asshole.