When 16 was in 1st grade he came home and asked, "Mommy? What's the most dangerous animal?" And I said, "Humans "
And that's all you really need to know about me.
Actually it became clear that I had married Booth from Bones.
Husband - "I don't think it's necessary to have this conversation at this age,"
Me- "If not now when? Do we correct later when it's more difficult to do so?"
It's so much FUN being an #Autistic mom in an #AutisticHousehold .
Related - Husband - "Ghosts aren't real."
Me- "I agree "
"But you're saying that you saw something."
"I did. I don't know what it was. But I saw it, and my mom saw it. I have no idea."
"Ghosts aren't real."
"I agree!! Jesus, man. We've got no idea what that shit was."
Science hasn't explained this yet, but it will.
Even if it's ghosts.
Don't let it be ghosts.
@Shelter
Tell your dearly beloved that I was raised in the Catholic church all the way to 18 years old and I was bullied from 3rd grade to 12th. Mostly from kids who went to the same church as my family did.
I'm curious as to where he got the belief that if a child goes to church, they won't be bullied?
@Shelter Soooo, kinda just talkin' out the old below-the-belt hole? 😁
@Shelter At "this age?" He considers 16 to be too young? Good gods, what age does he think is appropriate???
No, in first grade.
@Shelter oh duh! My fingers are moving faster than my brain is today. 
@see_the_sus
I speak to every child as if they're a miniature adult and if they keep up, awesome, and if they don't I explain.
@Shelter I try to as well. I remember when my cousin, who is now 23, asked me when she was about 13 or 14 if the pain of losing someone got easier.
I said, "No. Not easier but it does get slightly less painful. The memories will, hopefully, be more happy than sad."
She's told me often that I'm the only family member who listens to her and speaks to her truthfully. Sadly, I think she's right. Most of the family covers up everything and defends the bullshit & bullshitters.
I'm glad she has you.
@Shelter I think I got the better part of the deal cause she's awesome. 😊 We have so much fun when we get together & she's been invaluable in helping me learn the ways of them young'uns. 😂
@Shelter Indeed, ghosts aren't real. But there's shit we don't know. It's hubris to think we've discovered everything.
@CheekyGinger
Exactly.
@Shelter Anyway, it's fun to think about. What a sad world it would be with no mystery to it.
But then my husband, an agnostic, asked me, a raised Catholic atheist, to raise our kids in a church so they wouldn't get bullied.
My kids are happily atheist, and they get bullied for other shit.
Primarily because they're kind to others.