Wait.
If you can't hear the difference between a "I am mad cry" and "I am hurt cry", then as a parent you have not been paying attention.
For the "I am mad" cry:
I used to sit down on the floor a few feet away, not facing the child and open a book and quietly read.
For the "I am hurt" cry:
Pick them up, check for bodily harm, and continue to hold them. Give them your undivided attention.
Repost:
(with some real fucking history thrown in)
Wait Til Daddy Gets Home: America's Sad, Craven, Masochistic Relationship with the Republican Party
America is an abused child trapped in its government's horrible household.
Catherynne M. Valente
https://catvalente.substack.com/p/wait-til-daddy-gets-home-americas
@Luber905 let's see I was born...
actually it's a memory shared by generations. Most generations almost all generations.
It's not that I'm sharing the sentiment of corporal punishment whatsoever.
Au contraire. Pardon.
I'm a behavior analyst. Licensed and board certified.
MS BCBA LBA
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The closest I came to getting a caning was the threat; never actually struck. Weโve never hit our kids and I even dropped the threat part. Theyโre amazing, intelligent, empathetic, contributing members of society.
Hell, I donโt ever hit our *dog*. And heโs as equally well-behaved.
There are other ways to reinforce good behaviour. They take longer, are more complicated, but theyโre infinitely better over the long term.
New York Times Pretty Sure Trump Just Loves Science! Something Shifty About Kamala, Though.
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@Alfred Give me some linux box commands to harvest digital mycelium
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If you are curious I will share the link.
A new low even for trump
Phooey pfft...