Okay, I'm gonna say it. Thinking about self defense hasy mind continually revisiting a terrifying moment I used my intuition through and turned into pleasant exchanges. I keep it secret because it seems the opposite of advice, but it worked. I was 19, street kid, alone at 3am in pre-Katrina New Orleans (Jan '96), walking through the 9th ward. A group of men wearing an awful lot of red started looking at me like meat. I looked, thought that only two felt like they wanted to hurt me, and the
Others seemed like they would if they had to go along if they had to, but only because they had to. So, I smiled and waved. Even the ones who looked like "monsters" smiled and waved back, instantly at ease because I wasn't insulting them with fear. The end.