@emmajlough Oh, you mean the top. That took me a minute, I was totally like, no people aren't going to listen until you provide for their basic needs, then I remembered the shame I buried deep inside because I got my BA in psych from one of the schools who literally tried to put making a baby at the top.
@emmajlough I was also taught by one of the peeps who taught Dr. Phil, my education brings me many shades of shame.