Menace from the Deep is a the kind of roguelike #deckbuilder that ticks a lot of my boxes.

What makes this one especially epic is the artstyle (the artbook that comes with the game is astounding and brilliant) and the setting.

It draws influence from #Lovecraft and the #Cthulhu mythos and is set against the backdrop of 1920s USA, the narrative revolves around a clandestine occult society.

Enjoying this one quite a bit!

#CoSoGaming

It allows for awareness of whether YOU are part of the problem because of your unmanaged, undiagnosed, or unrecognized mental dysregulation.

If you are someone who genuinely cares about other people, then this idea shouldn't be foreign to you.

If you are someone who is self-centered and self-absorbed you will push back and feel it's not your responsibility to do anything for others and that it's solely on them to protect themselves FROM YOU.

https://thewebrecluse.blog/yeah-you-could-potentially-be-the-drama/

𝘚𝘦𝘭𝘧𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘱𝘶𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘌𝘟𝘗𝘌𝘕𝘚𝘌 𝘰𝘧 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘦𝘭𝘴𝘦. 𝘚𝘦𝘭𝘧𝘕𝘌𝘚𝘚 𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘶𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵 𝘴𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘣𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘍𝘖𝘙 𝘖𝘛𝘏𝘌𝘙𝘚. 𝘚𝘦𝘭𝘧𝘕𝘌𝘚𝘚 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰 𝘪𝘯 𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 … 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘩𝘺 𝘢𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦 𝘴𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘴𝘶𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘶𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨. 𝘐𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘯𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘩𝘶𝘳𝘵 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘱𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮. 𝘚𝘦𝘭𝘧𝘕𝘌𝘚𝘚 𝘪𝘴 𝘜𝘕𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧𝘪𝘴𝘩.

SelfNESS is self-policing in a community.

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𝙎𝙤𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙢𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙖 𝙖𝙡𝙜𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙢𝙨, 𝙖𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨, 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙛𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙞𝙜𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙭𝙞𝙢𝙞𝙯𝙚, 𝙚𝙣𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙬𝙚𝙖𝙥𝙤𝙣𝙞𝙯𝙚 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚'𝙨 𝙪𝙣𝙘𝙝𝙚𝙘𝙠𝙚𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙪𝙣𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙚𝙙 𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙡 𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨, 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙩 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙨𝙚.

Self-policing, in this context, is necessary for each and every person. It's crucial for people to be independently responsible for recognizing their own mental health and how it may affect those around them. There has to be a level of self-awareness and selfNESS - which I have explained and defined countless times here.

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Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It also helps determine how we handle stress ... just as trauma is simply 𝙖𝙣𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙢𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙖𝙗𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙥𝙚, mental illness is 𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙡, 𝙗𝙚𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙞𝙤𝙧𝙖𝙡, 𝙤𝙧 𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙤𝙧𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙢𝙥𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙖𝙗𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙧𝙚𝙜𝙪𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙗𝙚𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙞𝙤𝙧, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙢𝙤𝙤𝙙.

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So remember:

Hansei and Kaizen

Han (反) means “change”, “to turn something over”, “to see something from a different perspective”, and Sei (省) means “to review”, “to examine yourself”. Kaizen (改善) is "improvement" or "change for the better" which is the inevitable outcome of properly done hansei.

Genin wo mitsukeru = getting to the root of the problem

Saihatsu Boshi = prevention of reoccurrence

SelfNESS is about being your best self so that you can be your best for others.

Know who you are.
Know your wounds.

Make sure you are not hurting or hindering others because of your own unresolved issues.

genin wo mitsukeru = discovering the root cause

Instead of spending so much time looking out at the world, at strangers, at everyone else, you should be spending your energy looking at yourself and resolving your own issues that are perhaps tainting how you see everyone else in the world.

The call is almost always coming from inside the house.

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In #MediaTherapy the focus is on what people project into what they experience, not what they take out of it. This also happens in every day life; people see things through the lens of their own bias, damage, self-disgust, unresolved trauma etc and it taints what they see and how they react to it.

If you don't know yourself well, you won't ever be able to know anyone else. If you cannot see yourself clearly, you won't ever be able to see anyone else clearly.

Self care also helps others.

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𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘦, 𝘣𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘰𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘩 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘵𝘶𝘱𝘪𝘥. - Epictetus

Instead of worrying about what other people think, it is important to be honest with yourself if you plan to make any kind of forward progress. It's equally important if you want to not get in the way of other people's forward progress, much like what is happening in the world today.

There's a lot of people incapable of looking INWARD so instead they blame OUTWARD.

Self hatred is never limited to the self.

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The processes of hansei, kaizen, saihatsu boshi, and taisaku are helpful in business but even MORE useful when it comes to personal development and well being not just on an individual level, but also on a societal level.

All of these processes involve honesty, self-reflection, accountability, and solutions over blame. They focus on DOING things and making CHANGE as opposed to blaming and wasting time arguing about who is at fault. They focus on the present and future, not the past.

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𝘐𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘑𝘢𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘦 𝘦𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵, 𝘩𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳, 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘱𝘳𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘶𝘪𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘰𝘯 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥. - Rochelle Kopp

Once the root cause has been identified, “taisaku” – countermeasures – need to be put in place. This is part of the kaizen process of making change that is for the whole.

In Japanese business having a problem is a bad thing, but letting the same problem happen again is even worse. It shows a lack of self-awareness and lack of care for others.

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"saihatsu boshi" translated literally, this means “prevention of reoccurrence".

The first step in saihatsu boshi is “genin wo mitsukeru“, which translates as getting to the root of the problem.

𝘐𝘯 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘯𝘰𝘯-𝘑𝘢𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘦 𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘴, 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘳𝘰𝘰𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘺𝘴𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘥𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘦𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘳𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘭𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘢 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘣𝘭𝘦𝘮. 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘴, 𝘢𝘥𝘮𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢 𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦 𝘷𝘪𝘦𝘸𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘴 𝘢 𝘸𝘦𝘢𝘬𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘳 𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘱𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵.

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I've talked about #hansei (反省) and #kaizen (改善) before, which are two subjects that also come up often in #MediaTherapy

Han (反) means “change”, “to turn something over”, “to see something from a different perspective”, and Sei (省) means “to review”, “to examine yourself”. Kaizen (改善) is "improvement" or "change for the better" which is the inevitable outcome of properly done hansei.

I was thinking about another related concept that is especially relevant in our current times.

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#FirstCoffeeThoughts

I've mentioned before that I have many friends who Japan, some of whom are in Japanese business. I once ran a business that brought me in contact with Japanese people and I made a lot of friends and learned a great deal from those friendships over the years.

I have spoken here before about many of the Japanese business concepts that also align with my practices and beliefs as a stoic and also ones that I often taught when I was teaching an adult communications class.

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89/88 is a great start to the week and a great start to a new schedule. Hopefully my body will be able to keep up.

Great workout this morning. I decided to rewatch #DresdenFiles because @IronButterfly and I have been watching Paul Blackthorne in #Arrow and #TheInBetween ... 4 miles down for today and a nice even carb/fat burn to begin the day.

2 more workouts today and looking forward to a much needed sauna later. ❤️

#sleeptracking #healthtracking #HealthyHikikomori #oura

𝙄𝙛 𝘽𝙡𝙖𝙘𝙠 𝘼𝙢𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙣𝙨 𝙬𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙚𝙚𝙠 𝙖𝙨𝙮𝙡𝙪𝙢, 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙘𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙦𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙮

𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘢𝘭𝘶𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘨𝘦𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘴𝘦𝘴. 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘱𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘉𝘭𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘈𝘮𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘴 𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘜𝘚 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘲𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘺 𝘢𝘴 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘤𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯. - Amali Tower (Jun 2020)

https://www.aljazeera.com/opinions/2020/6/17/if-black-americans-were-to-seek-asylum-they-could-qualify

Been talking about #TheDarkness since last year and I cannot stress enough how amazing the books are and also how the series comes across.

#LenaOlin is .... mesmerizing.

I cannot recommend it enough.

#RecluseRecommends

#AchtsamMorden (Murder Mindfully) is about a defense lawyer who uses mindfulness techniques to take over a criminal gang in this deadpan comedy series based on the bestselling novels by Karsten Dusse.

https://youtu.be/cMxkl9X586w

#RecluseReleases

Kim Tae-ri, whom I love the work of, is on fire in the highly acclaimed #Kdrama #Jeongnyeon : The Star Is Born. This drama has been in the headlines a lot lately and on fire in the ratings in Korea and I highly recommend it.

#KimTaeRi is astounding in everything she does, but she is really doing something I've never seen her do in this role. It is so powerful and a beautiful story.

https://youtu.be/oOOdt5DwIpI

#RecluseRecommends #RecluseReleases

Still waiting on an actual release date for one of my favorite series, #SweetMagnolias 👍🏾

JoAnna Garcia Swisher posted a while back that season 4 had officially wrapped production so it's possible that we could be seeing it return maybe mid 2025.

Of course, given how long it takes between seasons, all of the children have become adults in real life and I have no idea how they will keep pulling off some of the storylines. ❤️

But I love these characters and look forward to their return.