𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘶𝘮𝘦𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘦𝘥 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘯𝘶𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘣𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘴 𝘤𝘰𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘶𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥, 𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘭𝘶𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘴 𝘥𝘶𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘰𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘭 𝘮𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘢. 𝘊𝘰𝘭𝘶𝘮𝘣𝘪𝘢 𝘜𝘯𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘺’𝘴 𝘗𝘳𝘰𝘧𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘰𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘏𝘶𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴, 𝘕𝘪𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘢𝘴 𝘋𝘢𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘭𝘢𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵-𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘴𝘵𝘶𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘗𝘦𝘳𝘤𝘺 𝘑𝘢𝘤𝘬𝘴𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘧𝘢𝘷𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘣𝘰𝘰𝘬, 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘴 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘴𝘵𝘶𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘞𝘶𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘏𝘦𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘴 𝘰𝘳 𝘑𝘢𝘯𝘦 𝘌𝘺𝘳𝘦.
Anyone who lists those as favorites is lying so they won't be insulted by professors.
When I was in school ... especially college ... the curriculum at that time was so cis-het-white-male focused and so uninteresting that I just didn't give a shit. Even in high school the reading assigned was BORING AF and the endless, pointless themes over and over of the SAME SHIT didn't resonate or motivate me. If I wasn't already an avid reader, it would have sworn me off reading all together. Wuthering Heights and Jane Eyre oh for the love of god just stop with that nonsense.
I have cut people out of my life for even hinting at judgement about how I read and what I read. It's absolutely no ones business how people spend their time and what they enjoy consuming. Intelligence is not measured by how much you read and what you read ... sorry, it just isn't. Intelligence is way more complex and fluid than that. I hate literary snobs and linguicists as much as I hate racists.
Anything that acts as a way of sucking the joy and freedom out of reading for anyone is just evil and anyone who engages in that or enables it is just as evil. We should be encouraging any kind of reading, any kind of engagement with books. School nearly sucked the love of reading right out of me for that reason. My brother's wife was constantly trying to drill into my nephew that he should read, read, read and she asked me how to get him to engage more with books and I said "leave him alone".
I was never in the "smart kids" classes. I wasn't smart enough. I had learning disabilities. I had difficulty reading. I struggled constantly and still do thanks to #aphantasia. It was rough. Me discovering books and reading and enjoy them happened on it's own. Me having access to "higher literature" didn't happen in school. I read books I bought from the gas station or borrowed from the library. I read hundreds, thousands of books growing up ... reading made me want to become a writer.
If Wuthering Heights is your favorite book, good on you. Congratulations. Just don't judge other people who don't give AF and would rather read a million Cassandra Clare books. At least they are reading. At least they are picking up a book and enjoying that book.
Mind your business.
Leave people alone.
Stop yucking people's yum.
All reading is good. I spent 4 months this year reading nothing but military sci-fi, and i didn't get any more stupid than I already was. In fact, I learned some new words even.
Then you have people who feel all superior because they learned about the fog index - as if that knowledge qualifies one for entry into Mensa.
@thewebrecluse thank you for this whole thread.
@kattsavage you're welcome 🤣 Thanks for reading it. ❤️
A coworker once tried to tell me that neutrons are harmless to people because they have no charge. So needless to say I was very skeptical about his qualifications as a physicist / Mensa member.
Isn't ever going to be me saying that. Both those books are seriously dreary and full of abuse. I'll stick with Austen, thanks.
@thewebrecluse
Wuthering Heights was assigned reading for A.P. English class in high school. I read Jane Eyre around the same time.
They were never my favorite books to read... they were more "experiential"... I was a teenager and visualized myself wrapped in a cape, walking along the moors, calling for "Heathcliff".
I never went back to re-read them... but decades later, there are still times in my life for a few minutes or so... that I have that "wandering the moors" moments again.
@QueenOfEverything Jane Eyre holds a special place in my heart because it was through that FILM (not book) that I began developing my Media Therapy modality when I was a teenager. I didn't read the actual book until much later. It's not a favorite. A favorite to me has to give me something that stays with me and shapes me in a profound way. I barely remember the books I read after reading them but the ones that I do remember, it's because they MOVED me in an unforgettable way.
@thewebrecluse it’s probably my favorite book ever. 🤷🏼♀️
@Novels56 Congratulations 👍🏾
@thewebrecluse I meant Jane Eyre but I’d never really recommend it to anyone. I read it the first time as an early teen and it just resonated with me….the longing, the loneliness, the unfairness of things.
I’m sorry for replying but I just wanted you to know that there are people who honestly love the book.
@Novels56 I asked for 5 so it's fine. Glad you like it.
@Novels56 And I am sure there are a lot of people who love the book ... the point is that not everyone does and not everyone would say its their favorite - for a variety of reasons - but that doesn't make them less of a reader because other books resonate with them in different ways.
@thewebrecluse
Most professors have stopped requiring their students to use books in their resources for papers ... they accept online material from sketchy sources ...
The librarian shudders.
Of ALL the books in the world ... find me 10 people who would HONESTLY say that Wuthering Heights or Jane Eyre are their favorite books.
Find me 10.
Heck, find me 5.