I'm not sure I can, nor do I think I want to continue to, make excuses for people's rude behavior. Over my time here I have heard so many different theories about, excuses and justifications for, and deep levels of understanding regarding, people displaying what simply amounts to really shitty behavior as they try to immediately establish their ego and presence in a completely new public space. I'm not sure anything more needs to be understood about such individuals that isn't blatantly obvious.
I left Hell to find peace and seeing people bring Hell with them into the garden that is CoSo is not something I have patience or understanding for. These people clearly have no patience or understanding for OTHERS when they act this way, but I'm supposed to have epic levels of understanding for their lack of self-awareness, control, and empathy? Sorry but I'm all out of that. I only have patience and understanding for people who make an effort to be better people for the sake of others.
Many of us came from abusive social spaces. Many of us were harmed in those spaces. Many of us sought peace and refuge from those spaces. And yet ... not all of us showed up in this place of peace and brought attitudes and ego and anger with us. Some of us saw it for exactly what it was - not a new space to conquer or destroy or shit all over - but a place of healing and positivity that we worked hard to make ourselves worthy of.
You have CHOICES. We all have CHOICES in how we want to behave when we take that step to create a new account somewhere new, login, and make that first POST.
Your introduction in that new space ... what is it going to be like?
An immediate criticism? A complaint? Are you kicking the door down to declare what you hate about the place you left? Are you screaming into the air because you can't figure out how it works? What is our first impression of you going to be? What do you want it to be?
Apologies everyone ...
I type faster than I breathe sometimes ... especially during moments when I really need to do more breathing than talking.
I get frustrated with people's endless nonsense especially when it adversely affects others.
@thewebrecluse Block 'em and forget 'em. They are not entitled to any piece of you, including your time or energy.
@thewebrecluse Yes. You are so eloquent with words and yet straight up at the same time. I appreciate it and I appreciate you.
@mistressticia Thank you for your understanding ❤️ I deeply appreciate that.
@thewebrecluse ❤️ I am on that path of "making an effort to be better people for the sake of others". I get it. We're not going to heal as a unit until we do. Amd I'm here to help people heal any way I can. Even if it's just being my weird spooky self.😉
@mistressticia Being your self ... your best self ... especially because you want to create something positive for those around you ... that is the most EPIC kind of self work. The most selfless. I am glad to hear that you're doing that ❤️
@thewebrecluse Thanks!! I'm glad I followed you. You're so interesting. Have a lovely night! I'm off until tomorrow.❤️
@mistressticia Sleep well ❤️ 👋🏾
@thewebrecluse I appreciate, and agree with, you 👍🏼 It's gonna be a wild ride for a bit, hang in there.
@LaughingBanshee I honestly have lost the energy to keep expressing this stuff 😂 So ... I think its best I keep my mouth shut on this topic from now on. There are people on CoSo who can express things like this far better than I and in way more ... approachable ways. ❤️
@thewebrecluse It's mentally taxing for sure, no harm in taking a break but your voice, in your way, matters here too. Do I need to throw a Journey, or Bon Jovi, song at you? LOL Peace friend 🤘🏼
@LaughingBanshee Throw them ALLLLL ❤️
@thewebrecluse And one more for good measure HAHAH (had to throw muh boy in there) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oPP0_j394r8&list=PL7ndVQ5KDqjvKLiWkwX9fag_cqtFblPWs&index=2
@LaughingBanshee HAHAHAHAHAHA life is always better with some Lee Joon Gi ❤️ ❤️ though I prefer the actor over the singer, but I'll take him either way 😂
@thewebrecluse Dude... same! He's a not-so-great singer without the over production but damn he's a good actor hahahha
@LaughingBanshee Scholar Who Walks the Night❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Arang ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Flower of Evil 😱 ❤️ 😱 still working my way through Again My Life ❤️
@thewebrecluse Vampire Joongi is hawt hahah Arang was great, I thought Again My Life was better than Lawless Lawyer but some Mary-Sue shit happening. Excited for Arthdal Chronicles though. Currently working through Gunman in Joseon. Wish I could find The King and the Clown and Moon Lovers.
@LaughingBanshee Lawless Lawyer I skipped 😆 Arthdal Chronicles when is season 2 coming finally? Next year?
@thewebrecluse Yeah, i think so, they just wrapped filming I think. Last I heard was that Ep 6 was filmed and that was in August. Only 8 ep.
@LaughingBanshee ohhh I'll have to keep an eye out then 👍🏾
Call me intolerant if you want to. Victims are rarely afforded the kind of understanding that we're expected to have for perpetrators of abuse. I'm really tired of that ridiculousness.