I do *not* feel safe knowing that there are people here who will screenshot your posts and keep them for *months* just to use them against you at a later date.
Not even slightly safe.
Coso is *not* safe.
I've shared really personal stuff here on the basis that it won't leave this space.
I am not safe here and I never have been.
@stueytheround Most everyone here has something they wouldn't talk about on CoSo or anywhere online.
My occasional overshare is probably balanced by being uninteresting to absolutely everyone.
Nothing to steal or see here.
But it's still weird knowing the mechanisms are there to try to take advantage somehow.
@maybeimaleo My problem is, what if it goes outside of coso?
That scares me.
@stueytheround 😭
I am sure I have overshared. Hopefully nothing damaging to anyone I care about.
My only screenshots here are of funny things & only sent to family and close friends. Who I *believe* wouldn't knowingly hurt any of us.
But of course, if they are still on the bad SM sites... Oh dear.
The triggers for this are concealed from me, but no, nowhere is totally safe.
So always share with discretion. There are many who just watch here, never speak, and probably are not our friends.
The one thing I really care about here is, don't leave us Brother. You are an important and loved voice here.
🤜 🤛
@stueytheround I am so sorry you are going through this!
@stueytheround oh, this is so disheartening. You are one of those I look forward to reading when I pop in. You have such a kind soul. I'm so sorry.
I want you to feel and be safe. Do what you need to do. I hope to see you again on here, but if not - you will be fondly remember from across the pond. (((Hugs)))
@stueytheround This will probably work better for you as long as you don't let anybody steal it from you.
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