I'm going to pin this in the hope I don't have to explain here again.

I'm bisexual.

Always have been. Had boyfriends long before girlfriends came along.
My friends and family know but I don't advertise it much.
Why?
For the last twenty years, 18 married, I've been in a relationship with @Mauve_matelot
It's become mostly irrelevant to me because I am devoted to her.
I'm not ashamed and if reading this helps someone else, then I'm glad.
Big love to you all ❤️🏳️‍🌈