So my son texted me a couple nights ago. His 18 yo gf was arguing w/ dad. Dad thinks my son *will abuse her, he will have to kill him and dad will go to jail. Gaslight much?
Son is totally non confrontational and has no anger issues
If she chooses to leave, he will cut her off
I drove there, recorded convo, and he suddenly denied everything
Offering a safe place for kids of narcissistic parents does not work. What’s the solution? Children is #1 goal
They are bound between love and abuse
be prepared to have a daughter w/o a wedding, Sounds like the young lady will need a new mom soon. Hugs to you @Saltybe808
@steelhoof he’s also accused of sexual abuse of a patient. I can land this on the prosecutors office but hesitate. He’s a *rate gun owner in Hawaii. First thought is safety
Act with love and care.
If he is the type I expect consider a burner phone not traceable to you for her to call on as needs present
@Saltybe808
@steelhoof problem is she is conditioned out of fear and abuse to adhere to her father.
gotcha @Saltybe808 hence the burner phone for her to call you. let it flow at her pace