So my son texted me a couple nights ago. His 18 yo gf was arguing w/ dad. Dad thinks my son *will abuse her, he will have to kill him and dad will go to jail. Gaslight much?
Son is totally non confrontational and has no anger issues
If she chooses to leave, he will cut her off
I drove there, recorded convo, and he suddenly denied everything
Offering a safe place for kids of narcissistic parents does not work. What’s the solution? Children is #1 goal
They are bound between love and abuse
be prepared to have a daughter w/o a wedding, Sounds like the young lady will need a new mom soon. Hugs to you @Saltybe808
Act with love and care.
If he is the type I expect consider a burner phone not traceable to you for her to call on as needs present
@Saltybe808
@steelhoof problem is she is conditioned out of fear and abuse to adhere to her father.
gotcha @Saltybe808 hence the burner phone for her to call you. let it flow at her pace
ummm @Saltybe808 This out 8 hours ago, in a way kinda relevant
#TheSixsters are an all girl rock band from #Ukraine currently in exile
They released this song/video about 10 hours ago
It follows Hold which I will link next with Happiness, all after running from Russians & war
Maria, the lead singer/guitar is but 17, the elder of the band. Listen and follow the lyric in the more below
Your young lady can find hope I pray
@Saltybe808 this is Hold by #TheSixsters
The first video release since they settled into exile after fleeing war in #Ukraine
@Saltybe808 This is Happiness by #TheSixsters
After 4 months apart most of the band was able to reunite and they threw this song together. The lyrics a subtle Satirical and Poignant commentary on survival. Or so it flows to my think.
Your young lady can I hope find her escape
hugs again @Saltybe808 so glad my son did not have such an issue
@steelhoof he’s also accused of sexual abuse of a patient. I can land this on the prosecutors office but hesitate. He’s a *rate gun owner in Hawaii. First thought is safety