Hello CoSo, I am gingerly dipping my toe here again. I needed a break to deal w my feelings of isolation because friends didn't see what I posted at one point and I got no response. And then our kitten died and I most definitely didn't want to say too much or be here too much because grief-posting with no responses is not something I am strong enough for. No clue what y'all have been up to in the last few weeks - just wanted to say I haven't left forever.