I just learned that my mother is expected to pass in the next day or so. 😢

Nobody reached out to let me know. I discovered this by contacting somebody about the flooding in CA, and they asked me about her situation, of which I knew nothing at the time.

It is very hard to have family like this. I contacted my sister, who holds power of attorney and she said there will be no services. No reason for me to go down there and visit.

Not surprising, but still hurts.