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When someone says, "my black friend" they are, without exception, a racist.
If they are not racist they would say "my friend".
The "My black friend" is a black 'object' that is your friend.
I have a dog that is a friend. It's not a person.
@jurban The only time I indicate color is if I'm deferring to their expertise due to lived experience or decrying abuse bcuz of color.
@jurban I secretly think the same thing about people who, "don't see color."