@gemswinc What you mean "we"?

Trump got less than half the votes cast. Harris received nearly as many as Trump.

The main difference between now and four years ago appears to be that marginal voters Democrats were relying on just stayed home.

Blame them. The deplorables got what they wanted. Those that voted for Harris did the right thing.

The sliver who couldn't be bothered, or who were disuaded from voting by heavy negative campaigning largely financed by billionaires' PACs, did it.