For a while I was doing my “disaffected neutral girl” voice.
It apparently wasn’t perceived that way.
Me: Hello.
Saleswoman: Would you be (does spiel)
Me: We’re not interested.
Saleswoman: Okay… and, honey, it will get better.
My face went red and I felt like an absolute shit. I mean, yeah, they were invading my space, but she was worried (like a caring human being).
So, yeah, CONFLICTED!