What is the most important thing you can give someone who is trying to reshape their life? Validation. Not just a 'good job'. And not 'Good job. I can see how much effort you've put into this.'. Those don't move the needle honestly.

When you give feedback, be specific. 'I'm glad you are trying out XYZ, what made you choose that?' or 'Nice song. I like the chorus, it's catchy. What did you mean by lyrics XYZ?'.

The difference between superstars and beggars is the validation they received.