@duglop It is seriously one of the phrases that induces rage in me. I think that if someone unwisely ever said it directly to my face, i would have to be peeled off of them. In the same way we have different physical pain tolerance, i believe our mental pain tolerance is also different, plus the way we've been raised also comes into play. To say the solution is already there is a cruel oversimplification to some peoples' situations.
@duglop Dad seems to think I have infinite patience and endurance.