@misslovelymess it would hurt my heart to think of a nice gentleman who's proud of voting putting garbage in his mouth "as a treat," but there are certainly better ways to respond than how she did. i'd try "that's awesome! actually, i would love to treat you to something a little better for you, can i get you a pack of gum and a slurpee or something? i want you to be here to vote for a long time 😉"