I'm going to try to stay up to finish enough of these novel revisions to send half out to my reader. That was my goal last weekend, before the laptop died.
Thinking about love languages today, though: the ones we use to show love, & the ones we value in turn.
The former, for me, is across the board: presence, words, touch, gestures, special days, food...
But what *I* like is pretty simple: just time with people who make me feel safe.
Which is... possibly why I like it here. 🙂
Night, CoSo. 🕊
@MLClark
Relationships:
How many of you read aloud to you lover. Or write letters by hand, on paper, and snail mail. Do things before they are asked of you. Sit in silence listening intensely to your lovers words. Habit and boredom are the death of love, spontaneity and humor feed it. Disagree lightly, and hold no grudges. But also speak passionately about your beliefs and ideas. It is a dance, not a race. Water flowing is the model.
These, need to be taught to those striving for connection.
@corlin thank you for the wise words @MLClark