Today I was called a “Civil Bitch.” It made me question myself because I know I can be sarcastic. I hope that is not what I am. But then again, is there something wrong when I tell the truth & I try to be kind at the same time? Or maybe I’m a bitch & I just don’t know it.
@carmahaz My friend, let me share a little something. Maybe it’s useful. Maybe not. You decide. When someone says something like that, it’s two things. First, it’s a backhanded compliment. Second, it’s not so subtly a sexist warning shot (even from another woman). You spoke your mind without being inappropriate (civil) but you attempted to lay it on the line. Girls aren’t supposed to (sarcasm). That’s where bitch comes in. If they called you a “civil” bitch, you did nothing wrong.