Important Note: No one is forcing you to use this site. You don’t have to stay if you don’t like how it looks, the users, how it’s run, etc. That’s totally up to you. Door is always open.
But don’t sit there and shit talk this place after standing in the doorway for just 5 minutes. Stay a while, interact and learn about the place & the people before you pass judgement based on “what you saw someone else post” elsewhere.