Children raised under the principle of "you are meant to be seen, not heard" often experience long-term effects on their ability to communicate and express themselves. This mentality suppresses their emotions and opinions, leading to feelings of frustration, isolation, and low self-worth. While some internalize this silence into adulthood, others eventually rebel, becoming more vocal, particularly with their parents.
As these children grow into adults, they encounter environments where self-expression is valued, and they begin to realize their voice matters. This can lead to a gradual or sudden shift, where they become more assertive, often confronting the parent who enforced the restrictive upbringing. These confrontations can range from calm discussions to heated arguments, as the adult seeks validation or closure.
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Regardless of the outcome, this process allows adults to reclaim their voice, leading to personal empowerment and healthier communication in other areas of life. Breaking free from the "seen, not heard" mentality often results in more assertiveness and empathy, as these individuals strive to foster open dialogue in their relationships and future families.