@VivianCreekmore it's been my observation that many people think of a resolution as an instant change - thus setting themselves up for a possible failure... I used to always just want to be a better person but, I'm actually doing a meaningful resolution this year - to be more patient with people
(including myself) & more helpful to others! But that will take time as a work in progress - took my 57 years to become who I am, it won't change over night!