Haven't been on fb or bluebird since Tues night. The withdrawals are finally going away , today I didn't feel like I had that need . I did keep messenger just incase anyone wondered where I disappeared to (since you can delete fb but keep messenger I did) which, no surprise, not one person has messaged me asking. I think that's helped bc if they were "real" friends you'd at the very least think theyd wanna send a dm asking 🤷♂️ maybe just me. Who knows. I know I would if I didn't see a post
It takes some getting used to.
I keep my name locked down on FB and Twitter.
We have one facebook account my better half uses to stay in touch with family.
Crackpots who we dont know instant block on FB.
Change password regularly with 2FA.
Ill bet more will find out how many 'friends' were bots.
Here though- im a real person- been here 7 years so far.
@AkomoCombine I hear ya but these were all legit people. I only added people I actually knew. But ya know how the majority of people are. Only know you when they want something (or want to pick a fight). But if you need help with something...well ..you prob can guess response . bright side is I don't have to see the stupidity on either of those sites anymore. Got to see people's real character. I've always said , who you vote for is a reflection of your character...I seen real character
@Timmah1979 I have seen some real (lack) of character and integrity over the last 10 years. Pretty sure I lost two friend I have known 30 years….but that’s the paradox of tolerance—I am tolerant until you are ok choosing someone that wants to take human rights away—then I am done.
@Timmah1979
Oh yes - peoples lives and now their internet lives are a learning experience X2.
The experience though is well worth it IF guided correctly.
In this respect we are all noobs here.
Some will catch on quicker than others but everyone has a place here.
Like any establishment there are rules. And as long as you remain within them anyone will be fine.