@Kryfast Oof, I've had that situation happen. Do you have the means and willingness to prepare for the move, if they were to let you?

@PaganMother yes, it's not going to an easy task but I'm motivated for it and looking for options to help me move out.

@Kryfast I want you to try something that I didn't do when my ex pulled this with me. Sit down with them, and write out a step by step of what you are motivated to do, in order to move out of country with them and the time span you hope to achieve those goals. Ask them if this would open up the option of moving with them, and show them that you are serious. Sometimes, it's the lack of serious focus that can drive the wedge unfortunately.

@PaganMother that's actually really good idea! Because i have end goal, objectives and options but they said what i have it's not a solid plan.

@Kryfast Show them in paper the times you want to try to meet those goals step by step. If they think it's still not solid, ask them for advice on how to solidify it.