@Killthorne That's one good way, but families come in lots of forms now ...haven't you been keeping up with your Sesame Street? I was raised to not give life to any more children than I could afford to raise by myself if necessary....but not everyone gets the opportunity to choose.

@Killthorne So very many computations and permutations... a multilayered decision that can only fairly be decided by the individual woman (/person?? ... I have more evolving to do ...thank goodness ...only in my 60's yet lollll)