@LaurelGreen

My mom donated her body to Science Care and they had a "Tissue Committee." Was not what my sister thought it was.

Do you need to make other arrangements for your loved one's pets? Did they not have anyone that can take them, I'll find a home for them.

Make it know what you want done with your remains. Have a plan. Put IT IN WRITING SOMEWHERE IT WILL BE FOUND!!!!!

Swear I want to start a Tissue Committee.

I come to your house after a loved one has passed and bring all the phone numbers and actions and things you are going to need to do.

Things that will happen. So you won't be surprised when SSA claws their money back for the month the person died in, then the bank freezes the account.

Got a financed car? Hope you have a POA. Because if you don't have access to the account, the finance company won't talk to you and the car could be repossessed.

Still have to do the water, but I have to go uptown to do that, and I didn't want to swim any more today.
Still haven't heard back from the attorney, but there is a bit of bat guano to sift through. Once that is done we can close out the investment account. Because that I a whole other department.
OH FFS!! Put a GD Beneficiary on your damned accounts. Once they have an effing Death cert, they can avoid all this shit in CA anyway. Just don't go to FLA according the the estate people at chase.

Came home and changed the edison bill, gas bill, trash bill, and tried to talk to the car finance people, but they were gone for the day, so I just changed the payment info so I don't have to worry about that for a month. Emailed the cell phone company. Talked to my aunt about pictures, found my mom's sketch book.

Spent the day being an adultier adult.
Went to the vet and dropped off the samples of the dogs out put.
Went to the bank to get the paperwork for closing of the mother's accounts. Which could have been done Friday when I was there, but don't get me started on the ID10Ts at the local branch. GRRRR!!!!

I am tired of looking through all my electronic devices for pictures of my mother.

I have been at it all day today.

My phone.📱

Her phone.📱

My facebook.📓 😜

Her laptop.💻

My laptop.💻

Compiling all these onto a google drive to share with the family, so they can add to it.

Imma go take a nap and work on it some more tomorrow.💤

It's been raining all day.🌧️

Then he reminds me of his 22% husky escape tactics.

I can’t believe that this is my dog. Some days he just impresses me with his majesty.

#GSD
#dogsofcoso

And it’s supposed to be pissed. Not posses.

For the sake of your family. Make certain that these things are on paper. So there is no question and no argument as to what your wishes are.

My mom literally told me; “I don’t care what you do, I will be dead.”

This does not help your children that are of differing faiths.

#fuckcancer

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Ugh #2

I might be wrong. I might have let emotions lead here. But this posses me the f^€k off.

My mom passed away yesterday at 1705.

She was surrounded by her 3 girls.

I told her this battle was lost, the war was lost. It’s time to call it.

We sat around for a few hours and talked about margaritas and Cards Against Humanity. We talked about all the things that made her happy.

All while she laid in her bed. Waiting for the mortuary to come get her and body.

#fuckcancer
#lovefamily

@Bliss
Thank you. I know this is normal. I have been through this before. Just not this close to home for me. Nor have I not had someone to have a degree of separation from me. I’ve always had her to help me. I’ve always been there to help her. Now neither one of us have the other.

#fuckcancer

As much as I love my mother. I am absolutely tired of watching her suffer.

I feel like I have been sitting death watch for 3 days only for it not to take her.

My mental health is suffering. It has been since August (diagnosis). November since treatment failed.

I’m sick that I feel this way.

My sister is stuck in San Diego

My niece lives there.

Not this exact location, but still.

#BeforeAndAfter