So I've been looking into the name and gender change process and it seems to take a while. The question is, should I start now or wait until the divorce is final (which has been a slow process).
@MarvelousMadi13 Definitely formally changing my name was a big and affirming step for me, so I can heartily recommend it. The legal name change order provides a link between your old name and your new name, so it shouldn't impact divorce proceedings, but you may want to check with your lawyer just to be sure.
My general rule is, if something is going to take a long time, getting on it earlier and moving forward is better than waiting :)
@lenaoflune I emailed my lawyer and just waiting for a response. Hopefully it won't impact the divorce or the custody situation.