🥳 Feria de los liiiibros! Quién quiere ir conmigo esta semana? 👀
(Book fair in Medellín! Who wants to go with me this week?!) #Colombia
Sending a random burst of love, well-wishing, and warmth @NiveusLepus's way.
I hope our dear Bun and buddy is taking good care of herself. The work of being present so much and so often with others is wonderful *and* can take a toll.
May you always feel supported in turn, and remember that your core value lies not in what you *do* for others, but in the sheer fact of being you. 🫂💜
My therapist asked me yesterday, how I define #resilience. I'm curious to see what it means to you, fellow nauts.
Weekend #Ekphrasis challenge, for those who follow #CoSoArt. (Shall we make this a "thing", for those who want more creative expression shared on CoSo?)
This is "The Watcher" by Kellen Rodrigues. What writing, music, or visual art does it inspire from you?
"By 2036, the U.S. population is projected to grow by 8.4%. Additionally, the population aged 65 and older is projected to grow by 34.1%, with an increase of 54.7% in the size of the population aged 75 and older. Since older Americans tend to need more health care and access more physicians, the AAMC projects this trend will lead to a substantial growth in demand, particularly for the specialists they need most often." #healthcare https://www.aamc.org/news/press-releases/new-aamc-report-shows-continuing-projected-physician-shortage
It's utterly bonkers that we ever think of our societies as just.
At best, we're a mess of people with loosely related notions of common destiny, burning with competing internal convictions of what justice entails, trying to scrape out small, reactive wins in systems broken by design.
The cruelty of humanity, and its strategic indifference to *some* suffering, is never surprising.
What's surprising is the hope we still carry into the fight for something better, age after wounded age. #History
My daughter attended a graduation ceremony at San Quentin today. They graduated from GRIP and she said it was the most heartwarming thing. She was there all day. They got to have Subway sandwiches and cupcakes and she said it was so touching hearing their stories as they spoke. She said it was the most touching graduation ceremony she had ever been to.
As much as people make me grouchy sometimes, they also make me smile.
Today, walking through the mall, I saw a young kid about to burst into tears over pickles in his food court sandwich, but BIG BROTHER (not that one--the good kind) was right on hand, showing him that the pickles could come off, and swapping out a pickle-cleaned top-bun in no time at all. The eldest couldn't have been more than eight, but what a gift of care he's already mastered.
A silly start to the day, but a great end. 💛
Gosh, I love you folks.
It's not easy, but we *do* try to sit with serious issues together, to stretch in our discomfort, and to hold space for differences in communication style and baseline perspective.
And I appreciate the *heck* out of this over the tempests in teapots that fill my feeds in many other spheres.
It ain't easy to be openly, messily human with one another.
But boy howdy, do we try!
Resilience is an extraordinary thing.
We don't share many videos here of everyday citizens in Gaza. Many of us see them elsewhere, but here there's a deep fear of aiding and abetting simply for the audacity of keeping humans human in war.
It makes this space a bit more siloed than some.
This is a gentle video about urban gardening in wartime Gaza. Its lesson? Wherever we are, whatever hardships exist, there is always good we can do for one another. That is all.
https://youtu.be/dCh1huJCb8w
The saga of the hippos continues. 😅
Now the ecological problem lies with *dead* hippos gumming up the rivers.
*Feminized people. This is why I don't care as much when people use she instead of they / no pronouns. I *never* feel a sense of gender except when I have gender expectations heaped on me by dudes on the street, but that's the real threat in my life.
Earlier this year, I let this get to me & stopped going outside as often, exercising, etc. Gained weight, lost muscle, lived with way more stress in my body overall.
But so help me, self-centred dudes aside, I am not letting this get to me again.
Having a good test of my patience.
Today a park guard asked me for my number, after calling me over I thought for something important. He was with a female guard at the time, so I focused on her & discussed openly how hard it is for women* to exist in public without constantly being approached by men, to which she agreed. *For a second* he seemed to process this too.
But then he jogged over to where I was doing my last set of reps to ask me out again.
I just... 🤦🏻♂️
The other animals are great.
Writer (SFWA), translator, humanist, general odd duck • 🇨🇦n in 🇨🇴 • avoids pronouns, they/them if key