Back in the late 90's my best friend who had graduated came back from a year at college and asked if I wanted to go to dinner with her, her treat. I was hungry and said yes.
She brought along one of our guy friends who was openly gay and talked about how she was struggling with dating guys...
... I remember telling her that her frustration made sense and not dating guys sounded like a great idea. I wanted her to be happy.
About ten years later I realized she was trying to come out as bi.
I'm very slow on the pick-up.